by Br. Gregory-David Jones, O.S.B.
Jesus
teaches the host who invited him to a banquet a very important
lesson. Essentially, the message is to invite people to his
banquet who are unable to return the favor. This lesson is very
easy to understand, with the view that a favor done with the
expectation of a return favor is not as valuable in God’s eyes as a
favor done without a “payback”, but the most difficult thing to do is
put it into practice. One of the most difficult barriers to
practicing the “no payback” policy is our sense of entitlement.
Getting a “just reward” is understood nowadays (as in the time Jesus’
life) as a material benefit for doing good deeds. This mentality
is present so much in society that we have forgotten what the word gift
means. Company’s offer “free gifts” to lure people to up for
their service, buy their products or subscribing to their
magazines. We sometimes expect a “gift” of greater or equal
value when we exchange presents during the holiday season. These
are incentives, favors or exchanges – they might be nice, but they are
not gifts in a real sense. A gift is something that is given out
of love - without the expectation of a return. It is not
something earned, nor does it require the obligation of
compensation. This is what the story of the exalted Lord of all
creation who came to save his creatures in the humble form of a
creature is all about. It is also the example that we must follow
in the hopes that he will exalt us in the end.